Listening is really an art and in most cases a lost art. So many people today don’t listen but if you ask them, they’ll say they are good listeners.
This is one of the repeating presenting issues that I hear from many of my clients. They blame another family member for not listening. Being listened to is some thing that most people “fight” for; people want to be heard (listened to).
Listening effectively has to be intentional. It does not come natural. It requires discipline of mind and heart. Listening telegraphs to others your value and respect of them. So to listen is a message of respect and value.
Three important reminders to listening:
- Pay attention how you listen
- You learn more by listening
- There is risk of losing all from not listening
Listen effectively today.
I would love to hear from you what other benefits can be had from listening. Drop me a line in the comment box found below.
March 28, 2013
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